We all have those different and sometimes unique personalities, skills, experiences, attitudes and attributes that when merged can bring forth brainstorming evolutionary consciousness, and those heart led missions contribute to making this world a better place. When kindred spiritual tribes unite and the light of unconditional love gets brighter darkness can't penetrate that power.
Some of us can actually have more lone wolf type of tendencies and genuinely really love our own company, but we do need to be with those significant others at times, we need to be loved, needed, touched and appreciated in relationships and visa versa. As long as you love you that's all that matters, and of course there will be those significant people in your life, who will love and support you for who you are no matter what is going on in your life. What people like or dislike can have all sorts of reasons behind it, which really has nothing to do with you. People can say I don't care if this person likes me or that person likes me, and possibly it doesn't really matter in the long run, as that is always going to happen. We all want to feel loved and accepted, no man or woman is an Island. It is from that place that we become connected to Divine source, but not attached to any sort of outcome, as we have the trust that is needed to have faith in the Devine designing and timing of thing. Transmuting any undesirable behaviour into something that comes from a place of love and acceptance. Sometimes it is only when we project these subconscious beliefs onto others we finally become aware of them ourselves, it is then that we can consciously make the choice to become aligned with true love in us all for further words, deeds and actions. We all still have our karmic debt to sort out because of those subconscious thoughts, deeds or actions, but with empathy, awareness and a conscious effort to put things right, harmony can flourish for all. So that means even when we or others have fucked it up dear ones we need to know that no good can come from continually shaming and blaming ourselves or others for things that we, or they were not conscious of. It then becomes about projecting twisted love. So you can give out unconditional love as much as you like, it's wonderful, people love it, don't they? And they will always respond by giving it back to you of course as what you give out you will receive back, right! Well not always because a lot of people reject it, just as we may all have experienced at some points of our life, as it becomes rarer and rarer, almost like an endangered species. But then wait a minute you can't expect back anyway because if you do then you are placing a condition on your love, then of course it wasn't unconditional love in the first place! Talk about mind boggling! Aha, but pure love doesn't come from the mind does it, and that's where we can all fuck it up, every single one of us can do that. That’s why at times we’ll be thinking the law of attraction isn’t working for us but it’s because what we are saying consciously is being overridden by our subconscious beliefs and fears.
Your loyalty is with the twisted love as that is what you have learned from your primary caregivers, the 'data' over rides the instinct, the communication has been tattoo'd into the deepest most primal part of your brain, and you can project that energy onto others without being aware of it. It goes into battle with your psyche’s essence of unconditional love as it sees it as an invader and tries to annihilate it. Sounds really easy when I say it like that doesn't it, and yet.When you have experienced twisted love in your early years, when much of your brains major development is being established, then that twisted love from your ego is what you learn to connect with above all else, as in a weird kind of way it brings you comfort. If something was off kilter or not good for me that part of me would highlight it through my gut instinct, if I listened to that then all was well. The part of me that is my essence, in alignment with my souls desire and life purpose is unconditional love, it's that part of me that always gave me the right answers.